I finally finished my taxes last night and like many of you I breathed my annual sigh of relief. Reviewing the details of our financial picture can be grueling and even painful. It’s easy to go through the year with blinders on when we over spend or make poor decisions. But in April of each year we have no choice but to lay it all out for Uncle … [Read more...] about Financial Infidelity….A Cheater Among Us?
Happy St. Patrick’s Day! I’m not Irish, but this holiday is impossible to miss. Shamrock green wreaths and inflatable leprechauns throughout my neighborhood makes the St. Patrick’s Day fever downright contagious, even to a those of us who have never tasted Irish soda bread or sipped a green beer. All day today the Irish, and the Irish at heart, … [Read more...] about When the Luck of the Irish Goes Bad
Wouldn't it be great if your marriage came with some kind of guarantee? Like “if you’re not satisfied with your partner, you can exchange him for one with all the qualities you thought you were getting when you first said I do.” Well, it doesn't. When it comes to marriages, it is much more of a “buyer beware,” or “final sale” mentality, so … [Read more...] about Buyer Beware – When I Do Should Be I Don’t
I think its time to set the record straight. Popular opinion seems to depict cheaters as lowly sleazes, sneaking around, victimizing their spouses, and only worthy of one thing; hitting the sidewalk hard while clutching divorce papers handed to them on the way out. Ironically, the harshest judges are those who have never experienced infidelity. … [Read more...] about Rebuild Or Revenge – The Choice is Yours
Recently, I was asked to give my opinion about Financial Infidelity on Fox Business News. It is an issue I deal with a lot, and as usual, I have an opinion and a strong one at that! But, the reason I sound so definitive when asked questions about Financial Infidelity is that I’m out there every day, and I’ve seen all sorts of tricks and creative … [Read more...] about Whether the Bedroom or the Bankbook – Cheating is Cheating
It’s been all over the news and prevalent throughout the political world. Smartphones being used as integral tools for cheaters to make connections, converse with their girlfriends or boyfriends and even send explicit photos and texts. What many people may not know, particularly those who get caught, is that there are actually smartphone apps … [Read more...] about There’s An App for That – Technology Without Morals
Valentine’s Day is approaching quickly and although it’s a holiday to profess your love and appreciation for your partner, but for those who suspect an unfaithful partner it can be anxiety ridden. In my experience as a private investigator, cheating spouses rarely meet with their paramour on any significant holiday, including Valentine’s Day, … [Read more...] about Lover’s Beware – Cheating Spouses Rarely Cheat on Valentine’s Day